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surviving in this stay home period

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For those of us who have gotten used to a hustle-bustle kind of day, this lockdown/stay home would appear as a punishment to us, we hate to be idle or sit around these set of people become restless from being in a place where nothing is happening. In the short period since embarking on the #stayhomestaysafe campaign some people have gotten so used to the routine of wake up, eat, sleep, which equals a 24hours of being unproductive. Knowing that this stay home period is essential for our safety health-wise, but it doesn’t mean our lives have to be on hold, you might not be able to do the things you always do like go to work, but look at the bigger picture this could be a chance to do things you have always been too busy to do. Perhaps this happening would teach us all that we do not need to leave our homes to have fun or work, this supposed fun might not be our idea of fun but trust me when I say at least it’s different from being completely unproductive. Below are a bunch
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               Language is any device used in communicating, the impact of communication in a relationship cannot be overemphasized relationship in this regard is any association between two or more people, The concept of “love languages” comes from a book by  Gary Chapman  where he described five different ways that couples express and experience love which is: through words of affirmation, quality time, gift-giving, acts of service, and physical touch. Love language is the key to any successful relationship, love language refers to the category of behaviors that individuals associate with affection, as an individual it is important to identify your love language to understand how you would want to be loved, to draw a better picture of what love means to you, learning yours and your partners love language is a very useful way of building emotional connections and addressing re-occurring conflicts If you are in a relationship you might want to watch your partn
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LET YOURSELF FORGIVE

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LET YOURSELF FORGIVE EVEN THOUGH THEY HAVEN'T ASKED NOT FOR THEM BUT FOR YOU YOU DESERVE TO BE RELIEVED OF THIS BURDEN THE WEIGHT FROM DAYS OF RESENTMENT YOU DESERVE TO BE FREED FROM THIS SHACKLES THAT HOLDS YOU TO THE PAST THE HURT PAIN AND BITTERNESS WITHOUT FORGIVENESS THE SCARS ARE OPEN FORGIVENESS BRINGS HEALING LET YOURSELF HEAL, SO THAT WHEN SOMEONE ELSE COMES ALONG AND LOVES YOU IN THE WAY YOU HAVE BEEN MISSING YOU WILL LET YOURSELF BELIEVE THEM YOU DESERVE THAT MUCH.                            
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Wednesday whispers: A shoulder to cry on

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Wednesday whispers: A SHOULDER TO CRY ON Sometimes in our lives, we all have pains and sorrows. While you cry and lean on that shoulder, make sure your body and heart stay intact. Quite often, a shoulder to cry on ultimately has a good chance of being a d*ck to ride on or a p*ssy to sink in. Now, this is what I mean! When circumstances arise, and life happens, the next thing that's usually most people's mind is getting someone to listen as you vent your anger or express yourself. This moment of self-surrender as you pour your heart to who is there to listen is a vulnerable one, especially when the listener is a good one, and they know how and when to throw in a few words, letting us know they feel our pain and understand our point of view. Those right words would make any Tom or Tina appear like the right one because we suddenly see them in a new light. In the real sense, most of these so-called " listeners " know what you need to hear and would say it i
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Wednesday whispers; What really lies behind a successful man? A woman or a bunch of expectations

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Wednesday whispers will be a segment where we can all talk on subjects society views as touchy on today's episode  What we have always heard is “Behind every successful man is a woman” this quote is written by Eleanor Roosevelt I can imagine the men smirking at this statement because the masculine does not believe so much in this sentence rather they have come to rephrase the sentence to suit the situation “behind a successful man is a bunch of expectations and responsibilities”.                                      When we talk about men we are talking about a socially constructed and ever changing gender identity, masculinity refers to behavior and culture associated with being a man and the several ways of being a man, boys learn early on in their life what the society expects from their gender   for example society mocks and ridicules a boy when he cries from being flogged “boys don’t cry” but it’s okay for girls to cry because maybe they are allowed to express their
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Lharmy's Bio Hello! I'm so glad you made it to my blog we are officially friends because beyound this screen and keypads I don't really have so much friends, I would love to meet you kindly introduce yourself via the comment box below 👇 .  Okay so I would do a quick intro just so you have a blur picture of who lharmy is I am a native of Abeokuta,Ogun state Nigeria. First of 2 girls,I used to describe myself as an extrovert but lately I've been hard to read situations and experience has forced me to retreat into my shell but I promise you I'm not boring ☺, I attended a federal polytechnic in Ogun state Nigeria where I studied business administration and management although the dream was to study mass communication but hopefully later on as we get to know each other better  I would get a chance to write on reasons behind the change of career line. Right now I am serving my fatherland at kwara state, so yeah your girl is a #koppa My hobbies are reading, travellin
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