Lharmy's Tea Talk

Wednesday whispers: A SHOULDER TO CRY ON Sometimes in our lives, we all have pains and sorrows. While you cry and lean on that shoulder, make sure your body and heart stay intact. Quite often, a shoulder to cry on ultimately has a good chance of being a d*ck to ride on or a p*ssy to sink in. Now, this is what I mean! When circumstances arise, and life happens, the next thing that's usually most people's mind is getting someone to listen as you vent your anger or express yourself. This moment of self-surrender as you pour your heart to who is there to listen is a vulnerable one, especially when the listener is a good one, and they know how and when to throw in a few words, letting us know they feel our pain and understand our point of view. Those right words would make any Tom or Tina appear like the right one because we suddenly see them in a new light. In the real sense, most of these so-called " listeners " know what you need to hear and would say it i

Wednesday whispers will be a segment where we can all talk on subjects society views as touchy on today's episode  What we have always heard is “Behind every successful man is a woman” this quote is written by Eleanor Roosevelt I can imagine the men smirking at this statement because the masculine does not believe so much in this sentence rather they have come to rephrase the sentence to suit the situation “behind a successful man is a bunch of expectations and responsibilities”.                                      When we talk about men we are talking about a socially constructed and ever changing gender identity, masculinity refers to behavior and culture associated with being a man and the several ways of being a man, boys learn early on in their life what the society expects from their gender   for example society mocks and ridicules a boy when he cries from being flogged “boys don’t cry” but it’s okay for girls to cry because maybe they are allowed to express their

Lharmy's Bio Hello! I'm so glad you made it to my blog we are officially friends because beyound this screen and keypads I don't really have so much friends, I would love to meet you kindly introduce yourself via the comment box below 👇 .  Okay so I would do a quick intro just so you have a blur picture of who lharmy is I am a native of Abeokuta,Ogun state Nigeria. First of 2 girls,I used to describe myself as an extrovert but lately I've been hard to read situations and experience has forced me to retreat into my shell but I promise you I'm not boring ☺, I attended a federal polytechnic in Ogun state Nigeria where I studied business administration and management although the dream was to study mass communication but hopefully later on as we get to know each other better  I would get a chance to write on reasons behind the change of career line. Right now I am serving my fatherland at kwara state, so yeah your girl is a #koppa My hobbies are reading, travellin